Online dating for overweight women
There are several websites dedicated to plus size or fat dating, but most cater to feederism and especially the fetishization of fat people. and that I was not deserving of love because of my body, a concept that many fat or plus size people are familiar with. I started off with a very closed mind; I expected this to be yet another fat fetish dating site. Cofounder Michelle Li says it's no mistake the model is similar to Tinder."It's a tried and true method, so we went with what works." Despite the swipe model, there are several differences.No reasonable, well adjusted man is going to look at your photo and do some sort of math in his head trying to determine that.Thankfully, the other 98% of men on those sites doesn’t give a shit what your BMI or waist to hip ratio is as long as you look reasonably healthy and attractive to them.My weapon of choice is Ok Cupid, because the design is great, I love the matching algorithm, and it seems to be the most populated by interesting, thoughtful, attractive people, and is especially dense with nonmonogamous folk.Since my first tip is ‘be the boss’, and I hate doing a post without a picture, please enjoy this photo of a young Bruce Springsteen.I don’t often talk about personal stuff on this blog, but I figured once in a while it might be good, so this is a post about how I’ve found it useful and helpful to navigate online dating as a fat woman.Nearly three years ago, I decided I didn’t want to have monogamous relationships anymore, for the simple reason that they didn’t suit me.
Accept that first before diving head first into the OK Cupid waters.Feelings of unworthiness and undesirability can make it seem like an insurmountable task… Having to seek out and meet new people for the purposes of starting a romantic relationship can be intimidating, sometimes confusing and often frustrating, for everyone.For many overweight individuals, you have added stress.Feelings of unworthiness and undesirability can make it seem like an insurmountable task. You are every bit as deserving of love, affection and a positive experience in seeking out those things as are your thinner counterparts.And contrary to popular belief, you CAN find love by adjusting your thinking and perspective.